NOTHING COMPARED TO MOTHER'S LOVE

Last night, I managed to meet up with some long lost friends. It was great that I met up with them. I just could not take my eyes away from a child laying in a pram.

This child is an adopted child when he was abandon by his parents since birth.
At 6 months he was very ill and he was rushed to hospital whereby on the way to clinic he stopped breathing for about approx: 3-5minutes (as quoted) but he had a strong will power to survive.

He is now 7 years of age but due to that incident, he had brain damaged whereby he cannot lift his head, he cannot walk or talk and he is blind too. In other words, he is not a normal kid.

His mother, left her job to take care of him. Imagine his mother needs to feed him, bathe him and carry him.

It makes me wonder, how many of us really appreciate our parents?

Just take a minute, close your eyes and think do you really appreciate what your parents have done for you?

Get up from your chair NOW and go tell your parents that you love them. Start NOW and be good to them. Gold cannot compare to the LOVE they have given us.

At home, Be dutiful to your PARENTS

When your parents instruct you, listen respectfully.
When your parents reproach you, obey and accept their scolding; try hard to change and improve yourself and start anew.

I used to ponder why my teachers/parents are "so long winded". Guess it is all our fault, we are the ones who "mold" them being "so long winded".

You ask why? It is simply because we normally do not listen properly. Try pay attention to them when they talk, you will realise that they will say only once, or twice to ensure you understand and they will not become a tape recorder!!!!

Yes, being scolded is what we do not like but what to do; when we make a mistake we need to be corrected. Do you know that if one who does not care for you, they will not correct you at all. Parents, teachers or any elders who pointed out your mistake are the ones who not only care but love you too.

Make a point to change for the better. Every parents loves their children and when we do not listen to their advise, we are hurting them.

EVERY CHILD'S GOOD BEHAVIOUR IS EVERY PARENT'S PRIDE.
EVERY STUDENT'S GOOD BEHAVIOUR IS EVERY SCHOOL'S, TEACHER'S AND HEADMISTRESS'S PRIDE.
YOUR GOOD BEHAVIOUR IS WHAT YOU SHOULD BE PROUD OFF AS NO ONE CAN TAKE IT AWAY EXCEPT YOU.

At home, Be dutiful to your PARENTS

When your parents call you, answer them right away.
When they command you to do something, do it quickly.

Do not just do it quickly, you have to do it properly, happily and not to break anything too.
The answer is simple: If you ask your friend to do something for you and your friend takes his/her own sweet time or break the things how do you feel?

Remember even though I write the word "parents" it do not just mean "parents" it also meant for those people who are elder then you, let say, uncles, aunties, cousins and not FORGETTING teachers.

So if you are busy and you are requested to do something, ask the person in a good mannered way whether you can do it later. If the answer is Yes, say thank you. (Please remember to do it)
If the answer is no, then stop whatever you are doing and do the requested thing (job) first.

Well, it must be very urgent that you are required to do it immediately.
Do you know that baby cries when they are hungry? so can that wait? What I am trying to say is that when you were a baby and when you cry your mother/father stop whatever they are doing just to feed you.

So, if we do what they requested, it shows that we thank them for attending to us first and now its our turn to show that we love them as much as they love us.

At home, Be dutiful to your PARENTS

When your parents call you, answer them right away.

Nowadays, I noticed that many children even adults do not answer their parents when their parents call them. Why? and when they answered, their parents get annoyed, why? All the whys? I know many of you will be asking me why? Not to worry let me explain.

When our parents call us, how is our tone of answering them. The tone is very important. We must have a "soft tone" NOT the "hard tone" or "rude tone". Its very important as "tone" brings out what is in your heart. Remember your facial expression is also important too. If you answer in a "good mannered tone" your parents will feel happy.

Q: How many times must parents call you before you answered?
A: Immediately.

Q: What if I did not hear parents call?
A: Well easy, just apologise and say "sorry mother/father, I did not hear you and what can I do
for you" (remember the tone has to be polite).

Q: Why when I answered my parents why do they get annoyed?
A: Let me ask you back a question. When you call someone numerously do you get annoyed?
Or when a person answered you in a "rude, hard, impolite manner" do you get annoyed?
Well, if your answer is YES. What do you expect from your parents?

Q: Each time when I answered my parents they cannot hear me, what should I do?
A: Easy; go forward to them and answer if you can. Otherwise say louder but in a polite tone.

Q: Its irriate me when they call and I am doing something what should I do?
A: Take a deep breath then answer.

Q: I am outstation and my parents used to call me. I have no time to entertain them can I ask them to stop calling me?
A: NO. They call you because they MISSED you and they also want to find out how you are doing (since you are outstation). Well, you can make it a point to call or sms them when you are free and make sure it is the same time so that they will know they are expecting your call or sms. You can even send them a sms to say that you love them.

Thats it for the first verse of this first chapter. If you have any question(s) feel free to write to me, I will try to answer your question.

RAPE CLIP IN BOY'S PHONE

What is going on with our children nowadays?????? Reading through the news today, make me very worried about my own too and I am very sure that many parents are having the same feeling like me.

Parents lets join hands to put a stop to all these nonsense.


Thursday July 9, 2009

Rape clip found in boy’s phone

By MUGUNTAN VANAR

KOTA KINABALU: A teacher conducting a spot check on a student’s cellphone found an explicit video clip of a 13-year-old girl being molested and raped by boys known to her.

Five students have since been arrested following a police report by the girl’s father two days ago after the teacher informed him of the recording.

One of the boys allegedly captured the crime on his handphone which showed a boy raping the girl and the others molesting her, Kota Marudu district police chief Deputy Supt Mohd Isa Yusof said yesterday.

“The clip showed the students kissing, hugging and groping the girl,” he said, adding that the video recording was believed to have been made on May 20 at a secluded kampung house in Sabah’s northern Kota Marudu district.

Those arrested included a Form Four student who is alleged to have raped the girl. The others were his Form Five schoolmates. They are aged between 17 and 19.

“One of the suspects was picked up from school while the rest were in their houses,” he said, adding that investigations were being carried out for rape and molest.

Asked why the girl had not reported the incident immediately, he said based on investigations, the girl and the boys apparently knew each other.

“It was only when the teacher found the video clip on the handphone and told her father that the case was reported to us,” he said, adding that it had been classified as statutory rape.

Warning Letters

Extract from the news today!!!



Another victim of SEX. I know many parents are very concern about this matter. But how many of them came into LIGHT. I can tell you its "NOT MANY". The reason is because the family is ashame.

Where did it go wrong? I understand that most school "post" the warning letters to the parents. Is the parent at fault? How could this girl throw away all the warning letters?

Anyway, its not for me to judge but please GIRLS, please do you really know that you are not only HURTING your parents but yourselves.

Just take a minute of your time to think. I only request for "a minute".

Do you know that earning a living out there is tough?
Is it that tough to LOVE your parents?
Have you ever given a thought of how your parents have to nurse you when you were a baby?

Every parents think the same. They just want their children to have a good future.

So please do not throw away your future just because you 'WANTED TO HAVE SOME FUN'.


Thursday July 9, 2009


Girl skips class for months to have sex in goat pen


Other News & Views


A FORM Three student threw away at least 10 warning letters from her school so that she could continue having sex with her boyfriend in a secluded goat pen in Jenderam Hulu.
She dumped the letters over the past three months to prevent her parents from knowing that she had played truant to go on her jaunts with the 19-year-old youth, Kosmo! reported.
Apparently, the 15-year-old girl began sleeping with the youth in March and became addicted to sex.


However, her mother became suspicious after noticing “physical changes” in her daughter.
She was shocked when the girl admitted that she had not been going to school for three months and had instead been with the youth.


The girl’s family then went in search of the youth who had disappeared. Police are now looking for him.

FOREVER FRIENDSHIP

Sometimes in life, you find a special friend;

Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.

Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop;

Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.

Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.

This is Forever Friendship.

BLOG STOPPED

I am sorry to inform you that with immediate effect this blog will be terminated due to unforseen circumstances until further notice.

I sincerely, thank all my readers for reading my blog and I do hope to be able to write again.

TREASURE WHAT YOU HAVE NOW

You have what you want know but do you treasure them? Fathers' day, mothers' day, birthdays, wedding's anniversary it goes on and on.

Nowadays, I wonder how many of us really treasure what we have.

Well this is a true story.

A boy (Andy not his real name) came forward to me and ask if he could have a talk with me. Me as usual always wanting to help ( or what people used to say "busybody") and of course my answer is "YES".

Here is our conversation.

Andy: "Why does a person has to die?" "Is it true that when you curse a person, the person will die?"

Me: "What have you done?"
Andy: "I tell him to go to hell and he died."
Me: "When was that?"
Andy: " Last year?"
Me: "Isn't it what you want? You ask him to go to hell and then he goes. What do you really
want?"
Andy: "Yes and No. I want him to go to hell because he scolded me and keep asking me to go to
school, study, tuition, help do this, do that huh!. Now I want him back because
my friends have fathers and mothers. I have only my mother."
Me: "Where is your mother?"
Andy: "She is busy working. She does not work when my father is alive and now she does not
have time for me."
Me: "Isn't it good that you can have all the time of your own without anyone hoovering over
you?"
Andy: "At first it was heaven, but now its pressure. No one helping me as mum is tired when
she return from work and we have to eat out most of the time."
Me: "Well"
Andy: "Now it is dull and quiet at home."
Me: "Andy, what is gone is gone. People died when they are old or very sick. We must
always remember that we have to treasure what we have today or it will be too late.
There is no other love greater love then our parents' love. Your mother is trying her
best to give you what you want. Tell your mother that you love her and you want to
spend time with her. I am very sure that she will be very happy."

This conversation of mine with Andy does not ends here. In fact Andy introduces me to his mother. At this moment of time Andy is still learning as to how to respect and repay his mother.
Know what, Andy's school exam results improves a lot and now he is aiming to achieve straight "A" for his coming SPM.

PARENTS - THIS IS SERIOUS

This is an extract from the news, The Star.

Parents 14years old is only Form 1 (if this person had gone through remove classs) otherwise should be in Form 2.

Almost daily, we heard of children requesting permission to go out with their friends.

Children, please note your future lies in your own hand. I am sure ALL parents do not wish to have this case happen to their child.

CHILDREN ARE OUR FUTURE, OUR HOPE, OUR LIFE.
YOUR FUTURE LIES IN YOUR HAND.
MAKE SURE YOU ARE MIXING WITH THE RIGHT FRIENDS.
YOU ARE OUR GOLD.


Saturday May 30, 2009

Girl films rape of friend

A 14-YEAR-OLD girl acted as a “movie director” when she filmed her boyfriend raping her friend using a camera phone.

The Form Two student even gave words of encouragement to her boyfriend while “directing” him, according to Harian Metro.

Police sources said the sadistic incident took place recently when the victim was asked to join the couple at a quiet area in Bukit Ampang, Kuala Lumpur.

The victim was told to keep an eye on the surroundings while the girl had sex with her boyfriend.

“After they were done, the girl told the victim to have sex with her boyfriend. The victim declined. They later adjourned to another picnic area near Sungai Tekali, Hulu Langat,” said a source.

The victim was then raped while being watched by her schoolmate who appeared to enjoy the ordeal. The girl contacted two other male friends who proceeded to take turns raping the victim.

The victim lodged a police report at the Batu 14 police station in Hulu Langat with her mother.

STUDENT PUNCHED

An extract from the New Straits Time.

Please read through and you will understand why the school usually request students to return home after school is dismissed.

If or when you know that your transport will be late to fetch you, please wait for your transport within school compound. Its for your own safety. I noted that in most school students like to hang around the bus stop or coffee shop to have a chat with their friends, please be careful I am very sure that your parent do not wish that your are a victim.


2009/05/29
Student punched, kicked by seven seniorsBernama

PENANG, Fri:
A Form Two student of SMK Batu Maung here had a swollen left leg and forehead after he was beaten up by seven senior students outside the school today.

The boy's father, P.Chandran, said his son, C.Katheventhiran, 14, was walking towards the school after buying food at a nearby stall when the incident occurred at about 1pm.

"When he was just about to enter the school compound for a Tamil tuition class, the group called out to him and when he approached them, they punched and kicked him mercilessly," he told reporters after lodging a report at the Bayan Lepas police station here.

Chandran said his son was lucky that a food seller operating nearby came to his aid. Southwest district police chief Supt Hatta Md Zain confirmed the report and said that an investigation was being carried out. - BERNAMA

True story of """KIDNAPPED""""

Today, I received an email from a friend in which one of his family friend was caught with this so called "YOUR CHILD IS KIDNAPPED"


Date: Tue, May 5, 2009 at 2:30 AM

Subject: My experience. Pls read!Hey guys,

I hope you guys will read this mail. Something happened in my family this afternoon. Just want to share with you guys.

Hope my experience will prompt you guys to be alert and careful as well.

This afternoon, I went out for lunch at 1.30pm. Then I went to salon at 4 something.
Then, I received a call from my mum at 5pm.
She asked "where are you?"
I said "I'm at the salon".
Then she said "I thought you were being KIDNAPPED!"

Something unexpected happened. Someone called my house number after I left the house for about 15 mins (1.45pm). A guy called, then there was a girl crying and shouted "mum, mum, i'm being kidnapped". Then the guy said, "your daughter is being kidnapped, I want RM50000".

My mum really thought I was kidnapped (which I wasn't). Then, my mum told the guy she doesn't have such big amount of money. The guy threatened her that he will do something to me, and many negative words. Somehow my mum negotiated with the guy, saying that she doesn't have enough cash on her hand now. She said she only has RM1000. The guy got angry, scolded..bla n bla.

In the end, my mum said she will pay RM2000. And the guy accepted. The guy told my mum not to call anyone, including my dad. So, my mum wanted to just settle everything herself. But so happen that my dad came home at 2 something. My mum told my dad what happened to me, dad got panic and broke down.

okay cut the long story short.

They went to bank in the money and all. After the guy received the money. The guy told my mum "your daughter will take a cab home, you wait for her to come back". So, my parents waited, they thought how come I'm not back yet. Then, mum called me. That's when she found out I was in salon, and she was conned by the guy.

So guys, pls let your parents know about it. Because there are many cases like these happening now. Behind my hse, 1 girl kena kidnapped and 1 house was robbed as well.

I hope you guys will be more alert when you're out. As well, tell your parents to be calm if they received such calls. Make sure parents can speak to their child 1st, to make sure if the kidnap is real.

GIRLS! PLS don't go back home late. At least ask someone to accompany you back home.
Can you imagine this incident happened in the afternoon, what some more during night time?

Well, a big lesson to learn for my family. Thank God nothing happen to me.
RM2000 gone. But at least I'm safe.

Parents are not angry. They understand that the guy just wanted the money.

Although my parents should have call me, but they were too afraid to call and they really thought I was kidnapped. Dad was afraid if the guy saw my hp that my dad is calling, then the guy will ask for more money. Somehow, God made a way. God bring my dad back home to accompany my mum at least.

This incident really saddens me a lot because my parents were so worried about me for that whole 3 hours. Crying and panicking and kept praying for me. Sigh.

But we believe God will use us to help others as well. Thats why I'm sharing these with you guys. So that you won't be trick by these phone calls. We also believe that God is prompting us to be careful and be alert once again.

Do keep me and my family in prayer. Pray for protection. Hope the guy won't come back to hunt us.

And I'm grateful and thankful to have such amazing parents. Thank God for His blessing upon my family, that we're safe and fine now.

Subject: Bukit Aman's Malaysia Control Centre (MCC)

I am not very sure about this, but its an email I received and I thought it might be very helpful to those who are interested to know.


Very efficient.
Answered after one ring.
Very useful during emergencies.

Police cars just came in from different directions within minutes !

Key in these hotline numbers(03-22627555/03-22626555) into your mobile phone.
They may safe your life. Those are the numbers for Bukit Aman's Malaysia Control Centre (MCC), the call centre for all police emergencies.

The police are urging Malaysians to have these numbers in their mobile phone.Bukit Aman Public Relations Superintendent, Mohamad Daud said motorists may help prevent cases like the recent murder of assistant computer engineer Mohamad Nazri Ismail.

He added that even after the crime has occurred, the police could go to the crime scene in the shortest possible time and it may result in the capture of those responsible.

An MCC spokesman said the public from any parts of Malaysia can call the centre to report an emergency anytime. "We will direct the call to the nearest police station for the officers there to handle the matter," said the spokesman

Muddy problem for Cheras residents

Just a cut out from the newspaper about the land that is higher then the school ground.
Wonder what went wrong when the pibg of the school reported to the respective government department?


Wednesday May 6, 2009

Muddy problem for Cheras residents
By CHARLES FERNANDEZ

EARTHWORK on a 10ha plot of land is causing residents of four bungalows along Jalan Datuk Haji Harun in Taynton View, Cheras, sleepless nights. The students and staff of a secondary school in the area are also uneasy.

The area, once a flat land and right behind the bungalows and SMK Seri Mutiara, was used to dump earth and over the years has become a hill.
Now a contractor is carrying out earthwork and this has caused the soil on the hill to loosen when it rains.

Mud then flows down the slope and into the compounds of the school and drains behind the bungalows.

The school is only about 50m away from the site, while the bungalows are separated by a huge drain which is now blocked with earth.

Several lorries were seen transporting sand from the area and these stopped coming when they saw City Hall officials conducting a survey with Cheras MP Tan Kok Wai and reporters.

It is learnt that the land is being cleared for the construction of several bungalows.
According to a resident, who wanted to be known as Lim, he has been living in the area for the past 20 years and has seen different contractors attempt to clear the land in the last 10 years.

“The land used be on level with the bungalows but because of the dumping activities, it is now higher than the roof of my house. My back view is also completely blocked,” said Lim.
Lim said whenever a contractor failed to complete the job, the area turned into a dumping ground for earth until another contractor came along.

“The empty land also serves as a dumping ground for old household furniture and construction debris,” he said.

Housewife Rita Lee, 62, said the drains behind the units were covered with mud and although the residents had complained to the authorities, there was no action taken.

“City Hall has been urged to issue a stop-work order to the contractor,” said Tan.

A City Hall officer, who declined to be named, said the contractor had not obtained the development order which was the pre-requisite before any earthwork was done.

“We will survey the area to ensure there are no more illegal activities on the land,’’ the officer said.

DRY ICE

Good information. Please take note and it can happen to you.
Remember this especially when you buy lots of ice cream. They normally put dry ice in your ice cream pack if you buy a lot.
A friend bought four packs of ice cream and to prevent it from melting, the seller put the dry ice amongst the ice cream.
My friend put it at the back seat (not the back of the car boot) and he started to drive with the windows closed and the aircon on (as what we all do).
Soon after that, he had difficulty breathing and it was getting worse by minutes. Luckily, he was in a traffic jam and when he almost fainted, beside him was an ambulance.
He dragged himself to the ambulance and got the oxygen treatment. He was getting better on the way to the hospital.
The ambulance officer drove his car to the hospital and he had the same experience. However, before his condition worsen, he opened up the window and he could breathe easily.
Only later, when my friend returned to office and told his colleagues about his story, they pointed out to him that the dry ice was the problem. WHY?

Dry ice is made of CO2 and when it "melts", it becomes CO2 gas straight away without leaving any wet mark (that is why it is called dry ice).
CO2 is easier to be tied up in our blood and thus, when the dry ice sublimes into CO2 gas, it fills the car room with it along with the air con circulation and caused CO2 poisoning.

So, dont put the dry ice inside your car if you are using aircon with fully closed windows. You must leave the windows open for such situation.

Hope this will help to prevent any fatality just from a small negligence like this. Imagine if you have your children inside, they might be the first victim.

Ants - can be harmful

What the ‘semut selangor’ looks like.
Ants known locally as semut selangor (tetraponera rufonigra), could be found on dry tree trunks and branches in tropical countries, especially South-East Asia.

He said a few ant species were capable of painful stings but not all were known to pose a serious danger to human health.

Parents/Teachers - Disciplinary problems

I am sadden by the news today regarding the disciplinary problems. What has become to our children??? Is it because their lack of parental guidance??? Or is it the thrill they wanted??? Below is an extract of the news to confirm my statement.

Thursday April 2, 2009

Disciplinary problems become a serious concern

Disciplinary problems among students are becoming a serious concern as 3,725 students were arrested for various offences involving 2,218 crime cases throughout the country, Harian Metro reported.

The figure was up from 1,836 cases in 2007 involving 3,383 students aged between 13 and 18 years.

Inspector-General of Police Tan Sri Musa Hassan said that the situation was dire and had to be tackled immediately.

He said studies conducted by the Malay-sian Institute of Research for Youth Development found that students in this age group were involved in various crimes such as murder, rape, robbery and theft.

“Studies conducted by Malaysian Studies on Psychology and Development centre showed that 87% of the ‘mat rempit’ in the country were mostly students aged between 14 and 25 years,” he said in Kuala Lumpur.

Sad

I am pretty sad today as I received a phone call from a friend. His son has left home without any news. In a way I feel happy for him but on the other hand I feel sorry. Hmm, wondering what is happening to me guess I better tell you the whole story (in point form)

He was a rich before but when his son has started taking drug that is when trouble starts. His son started telling lies and stealing. He threaten his mother by saying that he will rape his younger sister and to take his mother's life if she does not give him money.

Doesn't he understand, both his parents are sick, father has cancer and mother has diabete and high blood pressure.

What is going on nowadays? What were we taught during our primary time? Where are all the respects to the parents.

Young boys and girls out there, please be careful of those people you mix around with. You can be lured into taking drugs or doing things which you will regret later.

Please take into mind.

Without harmony where is no peace?
Without a country where do we live?
Without a roof how can we have a home?
Without a home where do we stay?
Without our ancestor where do our parents come from?
Without our parents where do we come from?
Without their guidance, care and love what are we?
Without their earnings how do we get feed?

Parents maybe strict but its all because they LOVE you.

Con people around

There are many cases of children being kidnapped, calling up parents and telling them that their child is kidnapped but the child is in school.

Therefore I do urge all students

1. NOT TO AVOID SCHOOL /CLASSES WHEN YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE IN SCHOOL AND NOT TO PLAY TRUANCY.
2. TO INFORM YOUR PARENTS OF YOUR WHEREABOUT.
3. PLEASE GO HOME IMMEDIATELY AFTER SCHOOL, AVOID STAYING AT SCHOOL BUS STOP.
4. IF YOU HAVE ACTIVITIES IN SCHOOL PLEASE BE SURE YOU ARE WITHIN SCHOOL COMPOUND.
5. IF YOUR PARENTS ARE LATE PLEASE WAIT FOR YOUR PARENTS WITHIN THE SCHOOL COMPOUND.

I like to relate an incident to you all.

A friend of mine received a call and was told that his son was kidnapped and the caller demanded RM10,000 for his release. My friend was calm and he called up the school to check if his son is in school. He was lucky that his son was in school.

Be alert, when you see strangers around.

Teen raped by duo armed with parang

Dear girls and boys,

Be very careful nowadays anything can happen nowadays.

Take good care of yourself.

2009/03/28 (extract from NST)

KUALA LUMPUR: An 18-year-old was robbed and taken on a terror ride before being repeatedly raped by two parang-wielding men yesterday.

The girl, her boyfriend and two motorcyclists were sheltering from the rain in a covered bus stop in Selayang about 3pm when two men drove up in a Proton Wira.

The men robbed all four of cash and mobile phones before dragging the girl into their car. Her boyfriend shouted for help but could not do anything else as one of the men was holding a parang to her neck.

The men took her to a car park in Taman Kok Doh where they raped her.At the car park, the duo rammed into a Perodua Myvi and robbed the woman driving it. They then took the girl and the woman to Jalan Kuching and left them by the side of the road.

Following this, they were also believed to have tried to ram another Myvi in Jalan Ipoh in a bid to rob the female driver. However, the woman was saved by other motorists who came to her aid."They were cornered and could not do much, so they rammed their car into another car, before fleeing," said a source.

City police Criminal Investigation Department Datuk Ku Chin Wah said police have formed a task force to nab the suspects.

Student Stabbed

Today's news
2009/03/06

Student stabbed in school fight

A Form Three student was stabbed with a kerambit (a small curved knife) by a schoolmate while trying to stop a quarrel on Wednesday.


This caught my eyes. Oh my god, what is happening to our young generation???? What else is NEXT????

I guess the Kementerian Pelajaran has to think of solving this problem.

What is going on nowadays? Is it the parents problem or society?????

Did our parents teach us to fight??? Are our problems solve when we fight?

If you students think you can fight well, then go get train to be a trained fighter/boxer like Mohd Ali.

Since when are we taught not to live in harmony?

Sometimes I wonder, is that what you have been taught during your primary or at home. Do you all understand that you are causing embrassment not only to your family members but to the COUNTRY as well.

Each and everyone of you are representative of the COUNTRY. Time is bad now, its hard to earn a living, parents are having a hard time trying to meet ends why can't we be good and appreciate what is given to us.

Appreciate and listen to our parents as one day we might regret and it will be TOO late.

BELOW IS AN EXTRACT FROM NEWSPAPER AND IT IS MEANT TO UPDATE ANYONE WHO READ THIS BLOG.


2009/03/06
Student assault case settled By : Desmond Davidson


The nine students waiting to be called before Education Department director-general Datuk Alimuddin Mohd Dom to receive a stern warning.

SEXPLOITS OF TEENS

Mother, girls or ladies out there. It is an extract from the newspaper. Sometimes I wonder too. Are the parents too busy with work? Or are you just being too westernise?

Please once you have completed your studies you can do many things as you like. But when it is schooling time PLEASE YOUR FUTURE IS IN YOUR HAND.


Wednesday January 7, 2009

Shocked by sexploits of teens

WHEN I came across the article “Tudung-clad teens who are hooked on sex” (The Star, Jan 5), I was left shocked, appalled and outraged to read about the adolescent females who unashamedly admitted that they find having sex at a young age fun.

My heart breaks for them, and I cannot help but wonder what drove them to behave in such a way.

Just when I thought sex-saturated culture among teens only happens in Western and so-called advanced societies, I learn that it is now happening in the country.

However, I would like to argue that this problem does not just affect Muslim, tudung-clad girls but also other girls in Malaysia, regardless of skin tone, appearance, ethnicity, socio-economic status, family background or religion.

It could be any girl, be it a straight-A student or even the neighbour’s sweet daughter.

To read about a 15-year-old girl confessing that the terms “pure” and virgin do not exist among her friends, and also having the gall to say “What is wrong if my friends and I want some fun and have sex while we are still young?” is unacceptable and frightening.

These girls think they have grown up enough to indulge in pre-marital sex when in actual fact, they are children who are abused and exploited as sex objects.

Do they not realise that they are being used and they have been robbed of their innocence as well?

Why are they so stupid to think that having teen sex is ‘cool’ by ostracising their peers who are still virgins?

To the girls who stand their ground by not bowing to peer pressure and sex, I salute you for sticking to your principles. Keep it up and ignore those who make fun of you for sticking to your guns.

And to those who think having teen sex makes them ‘cooler’ and more beautiful, they are just too stupid to realise they are actually ruining their own future.

It does not take a rocket scientist to tell us that when a teenaged girl indulges in sex, she is not only vulnerable to sexually transmitted diseases but also to chauvinistic males who could take advantage of her.

If we want to combat the growing issues of promiscuity among adolescents, we should not blame the media and Western celebrities for glorifying the sex-saturated culture. Nor should we blame our Western counterparts for introducing this unacceptable behaviour as well.

Isn’t it time we took a look at ourselves and did something to combat this problem?

We should be the ones to teach our children that they are human beings with dignity and self-respect and not mere sex objects.

Unless we do something right now, our younger generation will become sex-obssessed adults who will only bring downfall to our society.

STEFFIE YIN, Auckland, New Zealand.

Negara Ku

Do you know that some of us still do not know how to sign our National Athem. Erm, we need to teach them. So if anyone come across anyone who do not know how to sing "Negara Ku" teach them and be proud that you know how to sing "Negara Ku" (Our Country)


KUALA TERENGGANU: Home Minister Datuk Seri Syed Hamid Albar

The ministry held four ceremonies to award citizenship and PR status to foreigners last year.
KUALA TERENGGANU: Home Minister Datuk Seri Syed Hamid Albar ................
As quoted:
“Learn our national language and our Negaraku (the national anthem). Be proud of becoming a Malaysian and support the country and contribute to nation-building efforts,” he said.